Due to missing our budget on groceries and dining out the last two months, we have decided to go all cash this month for these two categories. In the past, Dana and I have done all cash with our budget. This was in our red intensity debt elimination phase, where every cent counts. Since becoming debt free and now flirting with Phase 3 each month, part of the easing process of our once very strict budget was a transition to using our debit card for our monthly expenses. I like the debit card because it’s easy to use (duh) and easy to track.
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We’ve decided to go back to paying with cash in order to refocus our efforts in the two particular categories that we have been struggling in: Groceries and Dining Out. Why don’t we use cash for everything? There are a couple of reasons:
- It is inconvenient to make a couple of extra trips to the bank to get cash. There are a few additional steps (putting money in envelope, remembering to bring the money when shopping, making sure the money comes from the correct envelope) that I don’t want to include in my weekly routine.
- We are not struggling or tempted to spend a lot on the other items on our budget. It’s not like we get the urge to go crazy at the gas station and buy a lot of gas when we get down in the dumps. Therefore, we will continue to use our debit card for gas and oil changes.
Our clothes and entertainment budget has, remarkably, stayed well under control the past year. This is mostly due to our 10 month old. He has changed our perception of entertainment and has dwindled our shopping time down to nothing. If these become problematic, they would also transition to cash.
So far, our cash budget has worked extraordinarily well. I know, it’s only been 3 weeks, but something happened after my last grocery trip. Historically, we have averaged $98.74 on our big weekly grocery shopping trip and this past week was no different. This time, however, it hurt me. When the $100.00 bill came due, I forked over the money (5 $20’s) and walked out. No big deal. Or so I thought.
On the way home, I couldn’t stop thinking about paying all of that money for the groceries sitting in the trunk. Sitting at the stop light, I think I actually verbally said, “Ouch. That hurt.” (Yes, I guess I talk to myself in the car. That’s a whole different issue for an entirely different blog.) I resolved to make these groceries last as long as possible, so I don’t have to feel that pain the very next weekend. These thoughts never crossed my mind when using a debit card.
Now, when I am at the grocery store, there is an extra filter of, “Do I really need this?” when I shop. We’ll see the true savings as time goes on, but I intitially think this is going to save 15-20% off our spending. That’s a yearly savings of $1000-$1500.
This psychological change has proven to me that we are on the right track with using cash for at least groceries and dining out. I will keep you updated if anything changes.
What do you use to pay for your monthly expenses? Does using cash work or is it a waste of time?




















